Couples who have only been together for a few months have no trouble trying to turn each other on. There is a certain aspect of lust and excitement that sticks with the relationship, making relations simple and easy. As relationships grow, however, men and women need to work on sparking that passion in their relationship. This is due to the change of brain chemistry and very often drives “young” couples to break-up.
From a “hot” female (high level of testosterone) and caring male (high levels of oestrogenes) the couple moves back to a caring female (testosterone levels lower than oestrogenes) and a sex driven male (testosterone back at its “best”).
Many fail to realize that a simple word or phrase can turn someone on. These five different phrases will teach you what to say to turn your boyfriend on. You can simply use one of these phrases to get the passion flowing; use a combination of these phrases to really turn him on. This will also help you keep your sex drive high and positive. keep in mind that his brain is always looking for an reproduction opportunity … make sure your stay the “target”.
This simple, two word phrase can do wonders for your relationship. By telling your boyfriend that you think he is hot, you are telling him that you are physically attracted to him. This gives a confidence boost to your boyfriend, helping him to feel wanted and sexy. When a man feels sexy, he is going to be turned on. Yeah, men don’t need much to get turned on.
You’ve Been Working Out
If your boyfriend has been working out on a regular basis, acknowledge it. Telling your boyfriend that you have noticed the changes to his body will help him to feel confident and accomplished. When a man feels confident, he will be turned on.
I Want to Be On You
There is nothing sexier than a woman who takes charge in the relationship. Men often feel as if they are the instigator in the relationship. By telling your man that you want to be on him, he will feel wanted, sexy, and confident. As mentioned before, this combination will help to turn your man on.
Anything On a Text
Sexting is one of the latest trends, gaining popularity because of the way that it makes both men and women feel. If your man is at work, text him a few sexual messages. Texting him different messages, including these tips, will help to turn him on when he least expects it.
I’ve Been Waiting For You
If you are waiting for your man to get home, be sure to greet him at the door. Tell your man that you have been waiting for him to get home in an excited and passionate way. This is another way of letting your man feel wanted and sexy, boosting his confidence and turning him on.
Again this is all related to the brain and how it evolved. These tips may seem a bit “basic” but hey, you are working on a very basic device when it comes to sex: the male brain.
Some of these phrases may make you feel somewhat awkward and uncomfortable. There are plenty of women who are not used to saying some of these things to their boyfriend. No matter your feelings, you need to work to make these phrases sound sincere. If these phrases seem forced or insincere, they will not work. Practice saying these phrases in a mirror until you are comfortable with what to say to turn your boyfriend on.
Let me know how your partner’s brain reacts!