[:en]What makes a man fall in love[:]

[:en]This has been an age old question, asked by millions of women. How do you produce the spark that makes him fall for you?

The truth is, no one REALLY knows. There are some scientific pointers and the Neuro Couple program members learn these, but why not keep a touch of romantic secret over this topic?

There are things that you can do that will endear you further into his heart, or things that you can do which will drive you further away. But, if anyone tries to tell you that they have THE one secret that will make him fall for you each and every time, they are selling snake oil of the worst kind. Definitely!

Here are some of the factors that go into what makes a man fall in love. You’ll notice that some you have control over and others are outside your ability to change, no matter how hard you try.

We’ll start with the unexplanable instant, chemistry spark that you just know is there between you. It starts with an instant attraction that scientists believe is a chemical reaction and develops quickly beyond the initial spark to an enduring attraction. It’s something you can’t predict or create, although perfume manufacturers have been trying for decades. But it’s much more than just pheromones.

Respect is a quality that men crave and when received, it bolsters their self-esteem and confidence in themselves and the relationship. Respect opens a man up to giving love to the woman who esteems him. If you can’t respect the man you want to love you, then you’d better start looking elsewhere. Without respect, your relationship will crumble in the long run, so it’s better if you start with respect before desiring love.

Your independence and strong sense of self, will be a real turn-on. When you have your own interests and friends and don’t depend on him to fullfil your every need, he finds that you think of him as special and important in your life. When he feels he is special then suddenly you become special as well. You have to use contrast to drive the relationship forward.